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Mistakes San Diego Escorts and Strippers Make

Forgetting to Provide Outstanding Customer Service

Sadly many female escorts in San Diego and strippers think they are the stars, it's all about them, men suck, and that all men are stupid walking ATM machines just ripe to be exploited. If you are a female escort and you feel this way, most likely it will show in some aspect of your personality or performance and your customer will pick up on it. More than likely you won't see that customer again. Remember most unhappy customers don't complain, they just don't call back. And if they do complain it's usually not to you, it's public or at least on a local San Diego escort reviews website like the TER and Big Doggie. Bad reviews will hurt your reputation and obviously your income potential.

So, to have a good reputation and a successful business, all strippers and escorts should remember that good adult entertainment is not about you, it is about your customers and you meeting their wants and needs during your time together. The only time an escort or adult provider may want to be mean to a customer is if that customer is a submissive and paying for that kind of treatment, then as a Dominatrix you can be as mean as you want in the context of your services, and the customer will probably love you for it.

In otherwise normal adult entertainment situations the fact is that any adult service provider or female entertainer can provide good customer service. If you want to build a highly successful following, make sure your customer service is "beyond industry standards.”

For Strippers

For strippers, that means showing up on time and doing what you were hired to do, perform and entertain. The past few years I have seen so many girls show up to a bachelor party and immediatey go over a menu of items they offer and what they cost to do. To lick whip cream my titties it cost this, to drink bush beers it cost this, for naked body slides it cost this, etc., I swear I'm so turned off by their attitude, and when I say something they come back with, "What ever it is you paid the agency was to get me here. You want me to dance you have to tip me! " What the hell is that about?, and how did the business get so tainted with chicks with shitty sattitudes?

So to all you strippers who want to make a decent living, by making a great reputation for yourself so you can get good referrals and get hired over and over again... Shut up, dance your cheesy little show and be good at it, and believe me, if you're good, you'll make very good money!

For San Diego Independent Escorts

For female escorts, performing good customer service does not mean you must perform Full Serivice, GFE (Girlfriend Experience), or PSE (Porn Star Experience) with your clients or subject yourself to any kind of verbal or physical abuse. It also does not mean you must give in to some asshole hobbyist who threatens to give you a bad review and ruin your reputation if you don't do full service on them. I say screw those guys and report them to an escort safety website called National Blacklist and make sure no escort goes near them again. No escort should ever be pressured into providing sex.

Just give your male clientele the kind of personal attention and interest that may be lacking at home or in other parts of their lives. Listen to them when they talk, ask questions and seem interested, or show empathy if they share with you their business stresses or personal heartaches. Don't give advice but certainly be empathetic and show support. Always be a lady, be courteous, elegant, professional and sophisticated. This will make you a pleasure to be around.

Another way you can provide good customer service is during and outcall, make sure you show up on time and look sexy but tasteful. If the appointment is an incall, make sure your place is neat, clean, comfortable, and smells good. Scented candles go a long way for creating the right mood for relaxation and intimacy.

While numerous factors are responsible for success for any adult service provider, by far the easiest way to expand your business is to provide quality and attentive care to your clients that go "beyond industry standards." Doing so is like planting money seeds that will grow and yield basketfuls of profit. Then, when your client list grows to be too big to keep up with, you can decide to raise your prices, or retain only your best and most valued clients.

One way to look at a customer is not in their one time visit for a few hundred dollars. Think of each gentleman as what business consultants like to call LTV (Lifetime Value of a customer). If that one customer sees you for $300 once a month for three years, that's $10,800. With this in mind, start thinking about how much all your clients could be worth. Every lost “good” customer is a big financial mistake, and if they share a bad call with you with other hobbyists by making negative postings about you on the escort review boards, then your mistake becomes public and can cost you incalculable amounts of money.

Remember, escorting is about being an actress at times, and when you and a good client get together, always keep your game face on. Your clients will appreciate you, and show much gratitude in return.

Bob Stevens is the Head Talent Scout for Exotics

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